eyyo this is my sideblog for all reblogs, and posts that don't fit my main. i'm not especially active but expect bursts of activity whenever I'm ill
I'll use #my take for original posts, and I'll try to tag consistently by the topic but idk how well that will go
Links to my most important posts (will add more as they happen):
post with a bunch of scholarly sources on the issues with corporal punishment (i changed op's mind with this one!)
i really appreciated that post about being normal about trans people with bottom dysphoria. i feel like everyone treats me like a waste because im not into the shit im supposed to and its so fucking alienating
it is alienating!! a lot of people don't seem to understand that most people with dysphoria can't positivity-post themselves out of it, so they treat it as some kinda moral failing. like "oh are you saying women can't have dicks? transphobe!" when no, I'm just saying I don't want a dick. like. personally. that's a result of my dysphoria.
KILL YOURSELF!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
"boypussy positivity this, girldick appreciation that" that's great, yeah. but are you supportive of trans people who have gotten/want to get bottom surgery? are you respectful of trans people with severe genital dysphoria who would greatly prefer it if you simply didn't mention their genitals? answer carefully.
I can't wait to get a place to live longterm and bottom surgery and wisdom teeth removal. can't wait to someday have a whole house to live in with my friends and make terrariums in and garden in front of and play piano in. can't wait to release music and work with more people and maybe start a band. the future looks bright but unfortunately it's far away, and I don't like waiting. grr.
once again feeling mildly annoyed by queer art made for a mainly cishet audience. cough cough All queer white pop music cough cough.
Did you mean: "Australian soldiers murdered 21 people"?
listen. I have no issues with your art if it's just art you make because you enjoy it. but if you're going to say it's Important Activism and Representation, you're gonna have to. represent body types besides just the ones that are hot to you. may be trans fems who haven't gone on e. or transmascs who have gotten top surgery. or trans characters in general who have gotten bottom surgery. or characters who don't have waists smaller than their hips and necks smaller than their jaws. idk. just. a thought.
what do you MEAN truscum rhetoric is becoming mainstream??????? have you ever fucking met a truscum irl????? I have asked this multiple times of multiple people and nobody can say yes. they're the last few dregs of a mostly online phenomenon that's currently dead, and hopefully will remain dead.
your outwardly violent attitude towards any and all romantic & sexual arrangements that don't mirror your good wholesome vanilla monogamous ideal is actually not made quirky and lovable by your queer identity. people who do the "if my partner even asked about polyamory i would buy a gun" schtick on here are pretty functionally identical to straight people who joke about murdering their partners if they came out as bi
white baby you can't be mistaking contemporary human behavior shaped by the underlying material conditions for human nature
Idk, it seems like greed and bigotry and unspeakable violence are pretty consistent historical themes. Seems pretty universal, imo
white baby you can't be taking the very different forms of exploitative modes of production throughout history and the ills caused by access to resources, and simultaneously flatten those down to greed as well as adscribing these to inherent human qualities
will wood and his evil twin won't wouldn't and their neutral triplet might could
if anyone's wondering this one was in the drafts for a solid two months at least
*whether medically or socially
also, if you have detransitioned fully because you realized that you weren't trans, this poll is not directed at you. it's directed at people who are currently trans.
those responses to polyamory are fucking terrfying.
"if my partner doesn't want to follow the rules i made up in my head and decided we have to both follow i will kill them" is pretty textbook abuse. it's a fucking sickening mentality to have.
i need yall to understand that someone encouraging medical transition isn't anywhere close to the same thing as transmedicalism
"medical transition is sooo normalized in transmasc communities" i once had another transmasc tell me to kill myself because i said i thought a lot of the fearmongering surrounding phallo was transphobic
