In a nutshell?  "Be involved from the beginning, identify your ideal work/family time split and be present when you're present."

Before you become a father

Paternity leave and shared parental leave (SPL) exist to help men be active, involved parents from the beginning. The current...

Your onward journey as a working farther

How central are work and family to your identity? Imagine a scale of 0-10 for both work and family: where...