“Thank you.” I say that multiple times each day. In the last few months, I started to question myself. Why am I saying thank you so much? Do others know it’s genuine? Why do so few say it? Is it just an HR thing? It was bugging me. The further you get in your career, the less people seem to say thanks. Was I missing some unwritten rule? Then I read Brent N. Bruggink, CPFA®'s post on this very topic. Maintaining a humble, gracious attitude in your career isn’t common. And in HR? It can be downright difficult. But Brent offered up a great reminder that it’s a professional superpower. One that I intend to continue to cultivate. No matter how uncommon or unpopular. --------------------------------------------------------- I share career growth and high-impact business tips for HR professionals. Follow me for practical, positive tips to grow your HR career!
I say it often. "I appreciate you." "Thanks, you really helped me." Etc. I think because as a business partner, you rely on others so much to assist you in getting things done, yet, you have no 'authority' or 'power' other than to build good relationships built on symbiotic assistance. I appreciate that A LOT and really enjoy looking them in the eyes and saying "Thank you".
I see this a lot as well, Amy. The higher some people climb, the more expectations of others they have. A simple "thank you" goes a long way to help build your brand as a leader who cares vs a leader who takes.
I always make sure to say thank you because I know how good I feel when I hear it back. HR is often times a thankless field but the impact of thank you is big.
In a world where everyone is in a rush, slowing down to express gratitude is a powerful practice! "Thank you" may seem like a simple phrase, but it can really make a difference.
Gratitude is attitude! Jesus taught this in the parable of the 10 lepers! 10 healed and 1 came back to say thanks! We can all be better than that and express gratitude and thankfulness more than 10% of our day and in our interactions!!
Thanks, Amy Mencarelli, PHR, MBA! Appreciate the words. Great insight - especially for HR!
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1yI worked for an exceptional entrepreneurial leader in a larger organization. He was a founder, CEO who thanked people all of the time. His gratitude stood out to me. It was unexpected. In that same organization, I also worked for a executive who considered herself a "hired gun." She rarely thanked anyone. She was often abusive and caused many people to leave the organization. I felt very glad to have the opportunity to see these two leadership styles in action.