Category Archives: Experiences
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Reflecting and refocusing, after three years of this blog
4September 3, 2015 by aggiesez
I started the SoloPoly blog about three years ago, but I haven’t been posting much here lately. I’ve been thinking …
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Why I’m no longer on the original Facebook solo poly discussion group (but I am on the new one)
8September 30, 2014 by aggiesez
Since its creation in early 2013, I’ve been very active in the original Facebook group for singleish & solo poly …
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Concern trolling and solo polyamory: No, really, this IS good for me!
19September 23, 2013 by aggiesez
“Come on, are you really saying that you wouldn’t want a primary partner if the right person came along? That …
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Guest post: Sometimes solo polyamory is selfish, and that’s okay
6September 10, 2013 by aggiesez
Note: This post was written by Thea Nova, and was originally posted to the Fetlife.com group Living as a Single …
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5 ways to get enough touch, without all the pressure
27September 2, 2013 by aggiesez
People are really touchy. That is, most people desire or require touch and affection on a regular basis — nonsexual …
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The good that can come from bad breakups: stories
11August 11, 2013 by aggiesez
This week marks one year since I began writing this blog, SoloPoly.net. So much has happened since then — most …
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When fluid-bonded sex carries emotional significance: Guest post by Master SoNSo
2August 1, 2013 by aggiesez
EDITOR’S NOTE: I’ve written a fair amount about safer sex vs. “fluid bonding” (barrier-free sex) — particularly, the reasoning behind …
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Why fluid-bonded sex is, um, “sticky”
30July 8, 2013 by aggiesez
Yeah, OK, pun intended. Couldn’t help it. Sexual health — and particularly safer sex skills — are key considerations in …
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Why vulnerability doesn’t really suck (from a confessed sore loser)
10May 23, 2013 by aggiesez
Personally, I loathe feeling vulnerable, which often happens when I have to do something difficult in a relationship. Like I …
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On staying afloat, in and out of relationships
10April 9, 2013 by aggiesez
When people discuss whether a given relationship, or type of relationship, “works” or how much it “matters,” typically they start …
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