Category Archives: Observations
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Goals for intimate relationships: Focus on what really makes love work for you
3September 4, 2014 by aggiesez
Whether we admit it or not, we all have relationships for reasons — including our most intimate relationships. We hope …
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Plan A: Balancing commitment and flexibility in solo polyamory
6July 3, 2014 by aggiesez
When people consider what qualifies an intimate relationship as “serious” or “significant,” one of the most common themes is “commitment.” …
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Balancing autonomy and connection in solo polyamory
4June 10, 2014 by aggiesez
Today in the Singleish and Solo Polyamory Facebook group, I commented on a thread exploring the different ways that solo …
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Does your relationship roadmap match your destination? (Guest post)
3June 8, 2014 by aggiesez
Guest post by Mitchell G The nice thing about traditional relationship models (such as the standard two-person exclusive relationship escalator) is …
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Autonomy is important, but it’s not all there is to solo polyamory
5October 31, 2013 by aggiesez
This week the popular Kimchi Cuddles poly webcomic posted a followup cartoon on solo polyamory. (Here’s the first one.) It’s …
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Kimchi Cuddles webcomic on solo polyamory
8October 26, 2013 by aggiesez
Way cool! Today, the topic on Kimchi Cuddles (a popular webcomic on polyamory) is solo polyamory! LOL, I’ve heard similar …
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The Pirates at the Top of the Escalator
6October 10, 2013 by aggiesez
Originally posted on The Notes Which Do Not Fit:
Ever since I have been reading fiction, I had always be struck by how many stories… -
What’s the point of being “primary?”
6September 3, 2013 by aggiesez
Today a pretty popular webcomic about polyamory, Kimchi Cuddles, addressed the topic of being poly without a primary. A common …
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The trouble with solo polyamory, in a word or two (Guest post by Lo Redkoan)
Leave a commentAugust 24, 2013 by aggiesez
At my best, I sometimes say, “Well, if I gotta be alone at least I’m a helluva guy.” The problem …
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When fluid-bonded sex carries emotional significance: Guest post by Master SoNSo
2August 1, 2013 by aggiesez
EDITOR’S NOTE: I’ve written a fair amount about safer sex vs. “fluid bonding” (barrier-free sex) — particularly, the reasoning behind …
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