Perhaps you've made comments like ‘that’s so girly’ or poked fun at a male friend for doing something ‘only girls should do’.
We can all take a step back and think about what it is we’re actually saying at times like this. Perhaps we are saying that being a girl is something bad, or that girls are weak? Now think of your mum, aunties, sisters, and grandmothers - not sure you mean it? At the same time, you might have an idea of what it means to be a boy - tough, sporty etc.
It's important to remember that girls and boys are equal and everyone is free to be who they want. These ideas we have could just be something we’ve picked up from online, TV or who we hang out with, making us feel that we should behave in a certain way.
Too often there's a pressure for boys 'to be boys' and to match up to an idea of what a boy should be, but let's look at how to break free from that stereotype.
Own It is here to help you get away from the negative messages we sometimes come across online.
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