Dear Dolly: ‘My boyfriend is amazing but he’s not my usual type’

Q. I’ve met a wonderful man. He is not at all what I would have imagined — he is three years younger than me but wise beyond his years. He is incredibly emotionally mature and ready for commitment. He is the smartest person I know and challenges me intellectually. We work so well together in bed — better than I could ever have envisaged. I cannot picture myself ever getting tired of him. But: I feel out of place when we’re anything but naked together. He is only slightly taller than me and I used to date guys a lot taller than me. He also looks very posh (signet ring) and is from a well-off, conservative background, whereas I am the first in my family